I would be lying if I said I don't get annoyed easily but I absolutely hate the way some people react when they find out that I'm 26 years old, not married or at least in a serious relationship.
* NEWS FLASH * I'M OK WITH IT, SO YOU SHOULD BE TOO!
I love author Mary B. Morrison because she coined the term unconditionally single- a person who understands her relationship needs, communicates effectively, willingly compromises, and refuses to settle. That is sooooooo me!
I know what I want and I'm very realistic, I'm not looking for perfection but I have standards and refuse to lower them just to be in a relationship, sorry, been there down that. Don't get me wrong, I would love to be in a relationship, it just has to be the right one.
In the meantime I'll follow some advise from Cher: "A girl can wait for the right man to come along, but in the meantime that doesn't mean she can't have fun with all the wrong ones."
I enjoy each man to the extent that I'm interested in him....
So yes I'm single and you have to be pretty amazing to change that!
I love that term Unconditionally Single!!! Imma start using that. Yes I so agree with you. People especially west indian ppl always seem to ask me this question. This is not the 1950's most ppl today dont even get married until their late 30's. Im not gonna fall of the end of the earth if i dont marry and have kids by tomorrow. There is more to my life than just being a wife and mother. Yes i would to be in a relationship, but i refuse to settle for BS. Im not sad, or depressed by being single. I actually embrace it!!! because i know i have the freedom to do as i please without having to answer to anyone. So i will rock on being unconditionally single until that day comes when Idris Elba ask me to marry him!!! (a girl can dream LOL)
ReplyDeleteOf course u can dream cuz while u wait for Idris I'm waiting on Trey...lol
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