My thought of the day:

Now usually I don't do this but I'm dedicating this to you, yes you. You know who you are. You claim you don't read my blog but I'm sure you're fronting. Well here is my message to you since obviously I'm not brave enough to tell you face to face and now I'm actually worried that you will see this =-/ *lol* Well here goes:

Unconditionally Single

I would be lying if I said I don't get annoyed easily but I absolutely hate the way some people react when they find out that I'm 26 years old, not married or at least in a serious relationship.

* NEWS FLASH * I'M OK WITH IT, SO YOU SHOULD BE TOO!

I love author Mary B. Morrison because she coined the term unconditionally single- a person who understands her relationship needs, communicates effectively, willingly compromises, and refuses to settle. That is sooooooo me!

I know what I want and I'm very realistic, I'm not looking for perfection but I have standards and refuse to lower them just to be in a relationship, sorry, been there down that. Don't get me wrong, I would love to be in a relationship, it just has to be the right one.

In the meantime I'll follow some advise from Cher: "A girl can wait for the right man to come along, but in the meantime that doesn't mean she can't have fun with all the wrong ones."

I enjoy each man to the extent that I'm interested in him....

So yes I'm single and you have to be pretty amazing to change that!

My love/hate relationship

I love bbm, it's my favorite thing about having a blackberry but it can be both a gift and a curse. I think it's great that I can see when someone reads a message I sent but what about when I read a message someone sends me but don't want to respond or choose to ignore them? I look like the bad person. BBM has taken away my favorite response of, "oh I didn't get the text" or "sorry I didn't see it till late"... lol. You see how it can be a double edged sword.

I utilize my status' on bbm and make it clear when I'm available or busy. When I'm at work, the gym, or church, I usually say so. I don't mind getting texts then but just know I might not respond until I'm finished or until I get a free moment. What I can't tolerate is people hitting me up when I say I'm sleeping! Don't bbm me period (unless I'm really digging you and you know it for a fact..lol). It really irks me when people see my status and bbm me, "wake up" or ask "you sleeping yet?". It makes me wanna scream "RESPECT MY STATUS".

All you club promoters, don't include me in your broadcasted message about your next event. I hardly showed up to any of your parties in the past so I probably won't be showing up anytime in the near future. Besides the promotion you do on facebook is enough. While we are on the topic of broadcasted messages, don't send me any unless they are incredibly funny or really inspirational. No one likes forwards on email so we definitely don't want them on our phones either.

Please stop changing your display name. I don't know who or what to look for when I'm ready to hit you up. You have the option of updating your status, isn't that enough? *side note* I'm all about updating status' through out the day but if you do it excessively, perhaps twitter is a better option for you #imjustsayin...lol

What are some of your bbm gripes?

Pull your skirt back down men...

I’m very into gender roles but with 21^st century updates of course. For instance I still believe women should cook , clean, and be primarily responsible for the household but I also believe men should help out and do their share or they can take over certain responsibilities if they are better at it than their counterpart. I think men should do “manly” chores like taking out the garbage and shoveling snow but that doesn’t mean women can’t assist or do it themselves when necessary.

I’m pro females telling a man what they need and want because they realize men aren’t mind readers. I have no problem picking up the check from time to time or doing nice things to show I care and appreciate him. I also dig when men can express their feelings, communicate effectively with their women and aren’t afraid to show their sensitive side but everything comes with a limit. I hate males with female tendencies! There is a limit to the bitchassness that I can tolerate.

Men, if you talk about your weight, diet, or workouts more than I do then that’s a problem because I’m pretty obsessed with all 3 and I consider that a female trait so cut it out.

If you can’t get over your ex but you don’t want to be with her yet you can’t move on, yada, yada, yada, MAN THE HELL UP because all that confusion and fickleness is a female trait and you should cut it out.

If you cry out for attention via your bbm and facebook status about not being loved or no one caring about you or F the world or airing your own personal issues please stop immediately. It’s not a good look for anyone but it’s definitely borderline gay when males to do it.

Don’t criticize or be jealous of other men. Jay said it best in the last verse of Heart of the City:

Males shouldn't be jealous that's a female trait
Watch you mad 'cause you push dimes and he sell weight?
You all don't know my expenses, I gotta buy a bigger place
Hehehe, and more baggies, why you all aggie?
N***@ respect the game, that should be it
What you eat don't make me s**t

That’s all the ones I can think of right now but please feel free to add any you come up with to the stop the males with female tendencies movement…lol